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With This Ring: The Solemnization of Holy Matrimony

1 Corinthians 13:4-8 • Genesis 2:18-24

The solemnization of matrimony, the beauty of the Prayer Book vows, and the via media of sacrificial and celebratory love

Anglican / Episcopal

Scripture, tradition, and reason in balance

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Tradition vocabulary:via mediaBook of Common Prayersolemnizationcommon prayertroththe ringPrayer Book vowsreverence

The Words That Bind

For centuries, the Anglican tradition has solemnized marriages with words of surpassing beauty. The Book of Common Prayer declares that marriage "is not by any to be enterprised, nor taken in hand, unadvisedly, lightly, or wantonly... but reverently, discreetly, advisedly, soberly, and in the fear of God." These are heavy words for a joyful day — and that is deliberate. The Anglican via media holds joy and gravity in the same breath. [BRIDE_NAME] and [GROOM_NAME], what you are doing today is both a celebration and a solemn act. You are making vows — not wishes, not aspirations, but vows — before God and this congregation. And vows, once spoken, have a weight that outlasts every feeling that may come and go. [HOW_THEY_MET] — and the story that began in that meeting now reaches its most sacred chapter. Not its ending, but its deepening. The Prayer Book knows what it is doing when it asks: "Wilt thou have this woman/man to thy wedded wife/husband, to live together after God's ordinance in the holy estate of Matrimony?" The answer — "I will" — is the hinge on which everything turns.

Genesis 2:18-24BCP Solemnization of Matrimony

To Love, Comfort, Honor, and Keep

The Prayer Book vows are a masterclass in the character of love that Paul describes in 1 Corinthians 13. "To have and to hold from this day forward" — love is committed. "For better for worse, for richer for poorer" — love endures all things. "In sickness and in health" — love is patient. "To love, comfort, honor, and keep" — love is kind. "Forsaking all others" — love is not self-seeking. [SHARED_VALUE] — this is already the character of your love taking shape. But the Prayer Book vows do something remarkable: they anticipate the worst and promise through it. They do not say "if" sickness comes. They say "in" sickness. They do not say "if" poverty comes. They say "for" poorer. The vows assume hardship — and promise faithfulness anyway. That is the genius of the Anglican marriage liturgy. It is not naive about difficulty. It is brave about commitment. And it wraps that bravery in language so beautiful that the words themselves become a kind of grace — words you will return to on the hard days and find strength in their very cadence.

1 Corinthians 13:4-7Ruth 1:16-17

With This Ring I Thee Wed

"With this ring I thee wed, with my body I thee worship, and with all my worldly goods I thee endow." The giving of the ring is the giving of a sign — a visible, tangible token of an invisible, spiritual reality. The ring is round because the commitment has no end. It is worn on the hand because love is expressed in action — in the daily work of touching, holding, serving, creating. "Love never fails." Paul's conclusion is the Prayer Book's assumption. Everything about this liturgy — the vows, the ring, the blessing — is built on the conviction that love, properly grounded in God, does not give out. It may be tested. It may be stretched. But it does not fail. [BRIDE_NAME] and [GROOM_NAME], the Church of England and the Anglican Communion have solemnized marriages in these words for nearly five hundred years. Kings and commoners. In cathedrals and in country churches. In times of war and times of peace. The words have held. The vows have held. And by the grace of God, yours will hold too. Those whom God hath joined together let no man put asunder.

1 Corinthians 13:8Matthew 19:6BCP Ring Ceremony

Applications

1Return to your vows. On difficult days, read them aloud to each other. Let the words do their work.
2Worship together every Sunday. The rhythm of common prayer sustains a common life.
3Hold joy and gravity together. Celebrate extravagantly. Commit soberly. The via media is the way of a lasting marriage.
4Let your ring remind you daily: this commitment has no end.

Prayer Suggestions

Almighty God, who at the beginning did create our first parents, and did sanctify and join them together in marriage: Pour upon [BRIDE_NAME] and [GROOM_NAME] the riches of Thy grace.
Grant them wisdom and devotion in the ordering of their common life, that each may be to the other a strength in need, a comfort in sorrow, and a companion in joy.
Make their life together a sign of Christ's love to this world, that unity may overcome estrangement, forgiveness heal guilt, and joy conquer despair.
Through Jesus Christ our Lord, to whom with Thee and the Holy Spirit be all honor and glory, world without end. Amen.

Preaching Toolkit

Movie Analogy

The Remains of the Day (1993)

In The Remains of the Day, Anthony Hopkins plays a butler who never speaks the words of love he carries inside. The film is a tragedy of unuttered vows. The Anglican marriage liturgy is the antidote — it gives voice to the deepest promises of the heart, wrapping them in words so beautiful they become unforgettable. [BRIDE_NAME] and [GROOM_NAME], say the words. Let them be heard. And let them hold you for the rest of your lives.

3 Voices

Classic

Those whom God hath joined together, let no man put asunder. These words have held marriages for five centuries. They will hold yours.

Pastoral

The vows anticipate the worst and promise through it. That is not naivety. That is bravery dressed in beautiful language.

Edgy

The Prayer Book doesn't say "if" sickness comes. It says "in" sickness. It doesn't say "if" poverty comes. It says "for" poorer. These vows assume reality and promise anyway.

More Titles

With This Ring: An Anglican WeddingThe Solemnization of Holy MatrimonyFor Better, For Worse: Prayer Book VowsThe Beauty of Common Prayer in MarriageThe Via Media of Love

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Frequently Asked Questions

What makes an Anglican wedding distinctive?

The Anglican wedding draws on the Book of Common Prayer, whose marriage liturgy is renowned for its beauty and gravity. It holds celebration and solemnity in balance (the via media), features historic vows that anticipate hardship, and emphasizes the ring as a tangible sign of an enduring covenant.

Why are the Prayer Book vows so significant?

The BCP vows have been spoken by millions of couples over nearly 500 years. Their language anticipates real difficulty ("for worse, for poorer, in sickness") and promises faithfulness through it. The beauty and cadence of the words themselves become a resource couples return to throughout their marriage.

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